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You needed the workout right?
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Thanks for the kind words everyone. I have been trying to keep negative RL stuff separate from my online presence since like it was said. This is something that is gonna suck when it happens. The feels got overwhelming after getting off the phone with mom and brain got to thinking about all the things of life stuff. My grandma's a fucking firecracker who's outlived her siblings, parents, and husband. Dealt with a lot of outer circle family drama like a champ. And has taught me a lot of how I wanted to be as a person. Watching her have that spark drain out of her is hard af.
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It really hit hard about seeing how much of her memory had gone last Christmas. Knowing how dementia works and seeing it really are two different worlds. I'm closer with her than my grandparents on my dad's side. But that's because we did more family gatherings on my mom's side since that inner circle of the family lives closer than my dad's side. (Grandparents on my dad's side used to live 2 hours away and even after moving to a facility after my grandmother on that side has fallen enough times to have both hips replaced, still lives about an hour-ish away. Aunt on that side lives just as far, uncle is the only one on that side who lives close and he's a snob ) And she's done a lot supporting me on a bunch of things in my live vs the other side of the family, even if it wasn't much. My brother is being standoffish about seeing her and my aunt's son has done his visit. I know I suck at keeping in touch in general but I know I would hate myself if I didn't at least see her soon before it finally happens.
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So I don't normally talk about my family a lot, just because mostly it never really comes up in topics or anything. I got a text from my mom saying "can u talk?" so I know it's not gonna good news but it's her way of keeping me up to speed on family things she wants me to know. My grandmother on her side has dementia. She's in her mid 90's and it began about a couple years ago which led from her living on her own in a condo, to moving to a facility when she started falling more often. And then recently being moved to a different facility where she will have much closer attention. Her heart congestion is getting worse along with her memory and has had a couple trips to hospital in this last month to where my mom and aunt who have been tag teaming to see and check in on her to where they both have the goal of making her as comfortable as possible since the back and forth from her facility to hospital is too much stress on her now. So this call was the "She's getting along okay but if you have some time soon to drop in a visit...." call. I already had a feeling that this year might be it from mom's updates. Hell my grandma has straight up told my mom when her dementia first started that she's ready to rejoin my grandpa. I've made rough plans to try and see her on either my next day off or after one of my early shifts at work because despite what how my mom is making it sound, it may be sooner than I was thinking. And I know no matter how much you try to prepare yourself for these times when it comes it's not gonna be easy. Hell I had to keep my answers short talking to mom because I was trying to hide my voice and crying on the line just thinking about it. We've had family pass before but there are only one or two times where it's hit me hard. the last time being my grandpa.
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Calibrations were accurate
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I'm really sorry hun, *hugs* hope the next chapter is a more adventurous one!
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This thread is too quiet. And it was warm today and I don't work the next couple days so I made a boozy slushie experiment *not pictured is the hypnotiq I added in between*
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Ya no surprise there.
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Is it because they're always a week behind the air dates?
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My roomie kinda went through something similar with his current new(ish) GF. They've been going out for a handful of months I think. Her mother who she had been taking care of and living with passed away recently. And there was a time where they didn't see each other for awhile and while he gave her space, he was starting to worry that things with them would fall through. He still made sure to text her and at least check in on her while giving her space, if they had plans and if she ended up feeling not up for it (like on one occasion she found some of her parents paperwork on something and it sent her in an emotional spiral) so there were times that they cancelled. But in the end, like Galeigh said, my roomie was honest with her and let her know that he was still in for this (even went to the funeral with her which she was grateful for) and they're starting to get back on track. So no, it's not stupid that you feel something for him in a short amount of time. Your feelings are valid. And yes respect his space and give him time to sort himself out, but just make sure you're being honest with him and your feelings and even if he might not be feeling like hanging out. Let him know you're there to cheer him on when he's job hunting, or thinking of him (I'm sure this sounds rambly preaching or something so forgive me if it does) I hope things get worked out, you look cute together.
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I don't know which annoys me more, the fact that Tsuji is such a dumbass brute or the fact that he knows and accepts this and continues on as long as he knows his lady will be eventually revived. Like " Okie Dokie Georgie! " Does he also hafta be so loud 24/7? Reminds me of fucking Asta in Black Clover
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Seriously! The man has unnatural strength, starts assessing the situation and now after finishing the episode wants to cleanse the new world by killing off the old and weak? IT'S FUCKING VEGETA AND GOKU COMBINED Given- Kinda reminds me of a slightly revamped Gravitation. So far it's cute Tsuujou Kougeki- Ehhhhh I'll give it two more eps. Fire Force- I can't help but feel bad for Shinra with that nervous smile. DANMACHI! FINALLY A REAL EPISODE: Apollo is a creeeeeper god.
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Dr. Stone Ep 2: New character is basically a more intelligent Goku
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Dude not every marvel movie is gonna make a billion. They just be fucking butt hurt that their spidey versions didn't work as well. Haters
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Why I have 5 episode minimum rule Unless it's just a fuck nope for some particular reason
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I had the same thing happen during Endgame, they started with whispering. Then they would talk during the quieter scenes until finally at one point I turned to them and told them to shut the hell up. They finally shut up after that otherwise I would have started throwing pieces of my popcorn at them every time they spoke.
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Also I may add Cop Craft to my list. The animation is good and the story seems interesting.
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That's what a friend of mine were discussing the other day. If Talos and the other Skrull were pretending to be Fury/Hill, just when did that start? She was saying it might have been since the funeral in Endgame but me and her husband were making points that it had to have been after the funeral. When she also wasn't sure if it was Talos as Fury when he was first talking with Peter because he did say "I would have spoken to you at the Funeral" and I pointed out that Talos was probably given all that information from Fury himself if they were on a specific mission from him since they were given the charge of delivering Edith to Peter. And like you said, How fucking long as Fury been on that ship? Where is that gonna lead us in the MCU storyline? Also great side notes of hilarity: -EDITH: Even Dead I'm The Hero - Peter Tingle
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Seen all of it, Holy fucking crap last ep thoughts in spoiler
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Dude I don't think there's a single fan in those seats that enjoyed him being exposed. But I do admire that Mysterio had even that planned ahead, I legit thought that when the other tech lacky was downloading something into that flash drive before escaping I thought it was something else entirely different like blueprints of the drones and what not (technically could still be! ) But then that edited footage and that reveal I was all "YOUUUUUUUU SNEAKY LITTLE COCK SUCKERS!" Just DAMN.